I think the resolution to the issue lies in talking to people with whom you have questions or problems, instead of coming to automatic conclusions and letting those conclusions upset you.
Becca
· 2 years ago
I agree with Lexy. I also wanted to say that I know things are frustrating right now. They will get better, worse, better, worse, better, and so on... thats how it works, right? I know you understand that. You are a smart guy who tends to be a bit too sensitive when people act like the stupid and inconsiderate jerks they tend to be from time to time. I hate to admit it but no one is perfect; not you, not me. Just remember at times like these it is best to take a couple of deep breathes and chill or you might explode and that could be messy. You don't need any more drama in your life, thats for sure. It does sound like you have plenty of good things going for you right now though. I'd focus on those things. I hope I haven't sounded too bitchy or anything, that wasn't my intent. Heres hoping today is a better day and that tomorrow is even better!
Also your parents are some of the best and coolest I've ever met. It was totally awesome for them to help ya'll out so much!
Ryan
· 2 years ago
"Thats the way they all became the Brady Bunch" I can relate to so many of the things you talk about. Alot of the feelings and anger you get, I get too. I wish I had some kind of answer but I don't. When one of us figures it out, we should let the other know. Until then, find something that makes you laugh. It helps me sometimes!
Mike
· 2 years ago
Welp dude. The way I look at it. Is with at least 3 alpha dogs in the house these problems will show up now and again. Its going to happen no matter what you do. They have their own worries, so their indifferance to the cool stuff is probably not the case. Rather they are busy thinking about their other problems. Most likely in the privacy of their own room or with each other they have expressed some sort of gratitude. To beat a dead dog on this comment. With so many you will have to pick and choose your battles a lot more carefully than you would with your spouse. No matter how close the friend is.
It will get better as you all fall into a groove figure each others habits out. I doubt you are the least liked. You are a very likable person. Just not so talkative sometimes. Sometimes people can take that as brooding and instead of talking with you or making small talk figure you would rather be left alone so nothing is said.
Becca
· 2 years ago
I agree with Mike too. Wow, insightful dude. I couldn't have put it better. You are liked by most as far as I know. I don't know the other guy buy just between you and me and anyone who reads this... I like you better than most people and lately I've gotten a bit picky so there. Simply because you are you and don't try to be anything you aren't. Keep up the good work and try to be thankful for what you have. Smile damn you, be happy for the things you can be happy for! Good nigh... wait... good morning.
Fatty J
· 2 years ago
What was all the RG6 for? And who is Mike? And Becca? Your a cookin' a som'ting up. And was I informed of a move? I think I was... but huzzah! I forgot! Questions have arisen, ponderings have developed, and the curious one, i.e. me, is left with popsicle, i.e. yummy, in hand. By the way, Edy's makes these fanTASTIC fruit popsicles that are to die for. Delicious I say, delicious! BTW, do you have a list of places that you are registered for the wedding gifts and all? I need to know... for secret... things... shopping... DVD's.
Hugs!... Drop me a line?
Natasha
· 2 years ago
Tony, you are not the least liked person in the house you dork. I love you! I love having you around. Haha. I think you are a very funny guy. Stop thinking people hate you, we don't, I promise. :)
moogaman
· 2 years ago
[quote comment="944"]What was all the RG6 for? And who is Mike? And Becca? Your a cookin' a som'ting up. And was I informed of a move? Hugs!... Drop me a line?[/quote]
The RG6 is so I have something better than all the RG59U I left in the apartment. And Mike gave me a shit-ton of compression ends so I can actually use all that cable. You know Mike, you met him.
No, you probably were not informed of the move because we decided to do it and had it done in about a week and a half. I will call you the next time we are in JC, though. I shall now return your hugs.
[quote comment="945"]Tony, you are not the least liked person in the house you dork. I love you! I love having you around. Haha. I think you are a very funny guy. Stop thinking people hate you, we don't, I promise. :)[/quote]
Why thank you.
Zan
· 2 years ago
Hey there Adam,
I tried to call you last week to tell you a bunch of stuff!! You should try returning some phone calls once in a while!! Anyhoo, we are registered at Amazon.com, Target, Bed Bath and Beyond, and Dillards. All the registries are available to shop online. But, you know us pretty well, so you might come up with a gift idea that we didn't put on our registry. Did you know Tony has to get you a gift too? We're still working on that one...
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Also your parents are some of the best and coolest I've ever met. It was totally awesome for them to help ya'll out so much!
I can relate to so many of the things you talk about. Alot of the feelings and anger you get, I get too. I wish I had some kind of answer but I don't. When one of us figures it out, we should let the other know. Until then, find something that makes you laugh. It helps me sometimes!
It will get better as you all fall into a groove figure each others habits out. I doubt you are the least liked. You are a very likable person. Just not so talkative sometimes. Sometimes people can take that as brooding and instead of talking with you or making small talk figure you would rather be left alone so nothing is said.
Hugs!... Drop me a line?
Hugs!... Drop me a line?[/quote]
The RG6 is so I have something better than all the RG59U I left in the apartment. And Mike gave me a shit-ton of compression ends so I can actually use all that cable. You know Mike, you met him.
No, you probably were not informed of the move because we decided to do it and had it done in about a week and a half. I will call you the next time we are in JC, though. I shall now return your hugs.
[quote comment="945"]Tony, you are not the least liked person in the house you dork. I love you! I love having you around. Haha. I think you are a very funny guy. Stop thinking people hate you, we don't, I promise. :)[/quote]
Why thank you.
I tried to call you last week to tell you a bunch of stuff!! You should try returning some phone calls once in a while!!
Anyhoo, we are registered at Amazon.com, Target, Bed Bath and Beyond, and Dillards. All the registries are available to shop online. But, you know us pretty well, so you might come up with a gift idea that we didn't put on our registry.
Did you know Tony has to get you a gift too? We're still working on that one...