I've looked at this screen for about a half hour thinking about what I should say. The truth is nothing I can offer would make you feel better. I know that losing a friend as close to me as he is/was to you would be almost unbearable. I don't know how you're gonna get through this, but the "one day at at time" approach seems to be working out.
I've thought about suggesting putting the wedding on hold until we could all be together to celebrate...but not knowing when/if that will happen makes doing that really tough. However, if that is something you feel like you need to do then we can work it out. It really sucks to need people sometimes.
I'm so sorry.
Zanthina
· 2 years ago
Speaking with Natasha helped me to put some stuff into perspective. Our wedding day is for us and nobody's presence or absence should get in the way of that. (Not that you would let it, this is for my own reassurances).
It's not surprising at all that you are having trouble letting this friendship "leave". It is/was a very close one. You are dealing very well with it, in my opinion. And I think, no matter what, things will turn out ok. I'm not sure what ok means, but everything always comes out the way it should. In my opinion. I love you.
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I've thought about suggesting putting the wedding on hold until we could all be together to celebrate...but not knowing when/if that will happen makes doing that really tough. However, if that is something you feel like you need to do then we can work it out. It really sucks to need people sometimes.
I'm so sorry.
It's not surprising at all that you are having trouble letting this friendship "leave". It is/was a very close one. You are dealing very well with it, in my opinion. And I think, no matter what, things will turn out ok. I'm not sure what ok means, but everything always comes out the way it should. In my opinion. I love you.